This is an article truly worth reading.  David French looks at the facts versus the perception:

Imagine a world in which mainstream coverage of Christian America reflected our actual expenditures and actual efforts. You’d barely hear from people like me, and perhaps you wouldn’t even have to. We’d have the entirely justified reputation as America’s most generous community. Yet instead we’re labeled as “homophobic” or “anti-choice,” and that label dogs us in all aspects of our public life.

But that’s because of other people’s obsessions. Not ours.

Are Christians Obsessed With Gays and Abortion?.